“It’s a comment in a culture where I see its effect on me and other women. We put our heads down. We look ashamed. We look ashamed — for what? Because we were out? Because we had on a sleeveless top? Because we wore a skirt? The guys who commented, meanwhile, don’t look down. They don’t look ashamed. They sometimes even grin. That’s all messed up. That’s not the kind of world in which I want to live.”